At some point in their lives, most women utter the question, “Could I be pregnant?” Some women ask it with eager hopefulness, while some with fearful concern. But it is a question asked by many women, both those who are trying to get pregnant and those trying to avoid it.
The most obvious sign that you’re pregnant is a missed or late period. This is a general symptom in the first trimester, and is usually the first indication to a woman that something’s up.
However, in some cases, pregnant women experience some bleeding and spotting around the time of expected period, which is usually 6 to 12 days after conception takes place. But this bleeding is not as heavy as a regular period. A woman may experience “implantation bleeding”, which happens when the fertilized egg attaches itself to the uterine wall. It is recommended to take a home pregnancy test if you have missed your period. These tests are very reliable and usually will accurately indicate if you are pregnant or not.
Here are a few symptoms of pregnancy:
- Swollen or tender breasts; this is an early symptom that can be seen after one or two weeks of conception. Many women may notice that their breasts have become tender to the touch or experience a tingling sensation in their breasts.
- Unusual fatigue or tiredness may begin within the first week of conception
- You may be surprised to know that nausea or morning sickness may show up as early as about 2 to 8 weeks after conception
- Lower backaches are another early symptom of pregnancy
- Frequent urination occurs after 6 to 8 weeks of pregnancy and is a very common symptom of pregnancy
- Darkening of the skin around the nipples is a common pregnancy sign
- Food cravings for certain kinds of food indicate a presence of pregnancy and can last throughout the pregnancy
Of course, all these pregnancy symptoms cannot confirm a pregnancy. There is no online pregnancy test, nor is there any way to accurately diagnose a pregnancy from symptoms alone. Many women experience all these symptoms and end up not being pregnant while many others have no symptoms at all, only to find out that they are indeed expecting a baby!
19-year-old Jackie shared with us at CollegePregnancyHelp.com that she’d been having sex with her boyfriend and they had been using a condom. One day, she realized her period was late and, upon checking a calendar, realized it was about two weeks overdue. “Surely it will come,” she thought, and continued about her day. But thoughts of a possible pregnancy kept creeping in. “Is my stomach a little bigger? Did I feel nauseous last week because of morning sickness or a little bug? If I’m hungry for a hamburger is that a craving?”
By the end of the day, her mind was spinning out of control with panicked thoughts about pregnancy. How would she tell her parents? Her boyfriend? What would she do with a baby? Would she have to quit college? What about adoption? What was she going to do?
She scoured the internet for a way to find out for sure if she was pregnant. She had considered buying a test but was too embarrassed. And besides, she was a little nervous to find out for sure. She’d have to make a lot of decisions. Wait, was that the baby moving?
After reading all the signs and symptoms, she was convinced that she must be pregnant. She was overwhelmed with all the things she would have to do, the decisions she would have to make, and the conversations she would have to have. She felt like her life was over, like she was too young to have to make these decisions.
She stopped by a pregnancy center offering free pregnancy testing the next day, wanting to see what help was available to her. The first thing they did was to offer a pregnancy test. Imagine her surprise when she learned it was negative, that she wasn’t pregnant!
Our bodies and minds can play tricks on us when we are worried about a life-changing event like pregnancy. And we shouldn’t make choices, like emergency contraception that can eliminate a pregnancy before we know if we are even pregnant, that can have lifelong ramifications. Ultimately, the only way to confirm a pregnancy is to take a test.
Take some time and take a test. If you are pregnant, your baby is counting on you to make the best decisions.